tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3573224.post2432982183658888616..comments2023-06-01T21:33:51.410+08:00Comments on Thoughts by The Uninspired.: The thing pasal relationship jarak jauh..Monkey's Bunnyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00700829470005555646noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3573224.post-88136203854319753092009-03-25T01:15:00.000+08:002009-03-25T01:15:00.000+08:00"so are you saying the majority that didnt wo..."so are you saying the majority that didnt work out's caused by not loving enough?"<BR/><BR/>- who said anything about not loving enough? :-/ i'm just saying that WHEN YOU FOUND THE ONE THAT YOU WOULD WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH, BOTH OF YOU (note : BOTH) would WANT to work it out.<BR/><BR/>"you cant really say much in this area if you never experience ldr itself and knowing that distance can be a real nasty culprit. you can love someone with all your heart and distance can fuck it up."<BR/><BR/>- i have, indeed. but that doesn't stop me from believing in ldr. you see, if you TRUST that person, it's going to work out fine, ldr or not. of course, ldr needs the EXTRA efforts from BOTH parties. BOTH have to learn to trust each other more. ldr needs the extra love, extra trust and all that. kalau tak sanggup and tak ada effort, that's why la ldr fails :P<BR/><BR/>"at the end of the day, distance+the selfish/weak nature of humans will make it nearly impossible to survive an ldr."<BR/><BR/>- i agree on that 'selfish/weak nature of humans' part, but distance is just an extra excuse la. i mean, when you love and trust that someone and doesn't lie, cheat etc <-- selfish/weak nature of humans, distance would only make the heart grow fonder. macam everytime meet up, mesti like "tak sabar nak jumpa!" :P<BR/><BR/>"maybe if you're only separated by a few hundred miles, same timezone etc, chances for the relationship to work out is higher."<BR/><BR/>- eh tak boleh cakap jugak ok. i know quite a few marine engineers, they go sailing kat tengah laut arab sana sini and got no telephone connection to contact their wives some more and have been on the ships for more than 6 months, then bila finally dapat balik rumah, alahai sweetnye. hehe. tapi ni my personal experience la ok.<BR/><BR/>and yes, setuju. dekat je singapore tu! haha :Pamyan.ms.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05691757479045755171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3573224.post-91200814594254751862009-03-25T00:39:00.000+08:002009-03-25T00:39:00.000+08:00ok based on statistics alone, the percentage of co...ok based on statistics alone, the percentage of couples who survive a ldr is really low, let alone those who ended in a loving marriage etc.<BR/><BR/>so are you saying the majority that didnt work out's caused by not loving enough?<BR/><BR/>you cant really say much in this area if you never experience ldr itself and knowing that distance can be a real nasty culprit. you can love someone with all your heart and distance can fuck it up.<BR/><BR/>at the end of the day, distance+the selfish/weak nature of humans will make it nearly impossible to survive an ldr.<BR/><BR/>maybe if you're only separated by a few hundred miles, same timezone etc, chances for the relationship to work out is higher.<BR/><BR/>in this case, im rootin for you wanie lol dekat je s'pore tu :PHFXhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07870553272661743958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3573224.post-24666416727646846182009-03-25T00:30:00.000+08:002009-03-25T00:30:00.000+08:00all i'm saying is, IF you love someone THAT much (...all i'm saying is, IF you love someone THAT much (or in other words, IF you have already found THE ONE/someone you want to spend the rest of your life with), you are willing to go thru the distance - or anything. (note : IF)<BR/><BR/>it makes you appreciate the other person even more. because each time that you got to (finally) spend with your other half - you would make the best out of it. yes, there might be no quantity in time, but there is definitely quality.<BR/> <BR/>well, this is how those loving married ones work it out, at least ;)<BR/><BR/>(well, they wouldn't get married if they didn't work the ldr out earlier, would they? :P)amyan.ms.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05691757479045755171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3573224.post-4513245563746763972009-03-24T23:33:00.000+08:002009-03-24T23:33:00.000+08:00oh and of course distance alone aint gonna be THE ...oh and of course distance alone aint gonna be THE reason or anything but it will be the catalyst, the fuel that will make even the smallest sparks into armageddonz lolHFXhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07870553272661743958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3573224.post-28501369860993958812009-03-24T23:32:00.000+08:002009-03-24T23:32:00.000+08:00"if there's love, there's a way. distance should N..."if there's love, there's a way. distance should NOT be a reason, or THE reason, to break up."<BR/><BR/>this is just too funny. get a taste of some ldr with someone u truly love and lets see how distance gonna treat you. life aint a fairytale. even if it is at first, fairytales are notoriously known for only tellin stories halfway. XD<BR/><BR/>i know im not helpin but i had 3 ldrs and ive read a lot about it after each failures and one of the main badguyz is distance. either that or our own selfishness.<BR/><BR/>ok stop rant nao. sowwy wanieeeeeHFXhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07870553272661743958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3573224.post-49161113540688112432009-03-24T23:08:00.000+08:002009-03-24T23:08:00.000+08:00if there's love, there's a way. distance should NO...if there's love, there's a way. distance should NOT be a reason, or THE reason, to break up.<BR/><BR/>if you love somebody THAT much, your love is totally worth all the distance/wait. in fact, you probably wouldn't even feel it - because that person is already in your heart anyway.<BR/><BR/>(audience : "awwwww...")<BR/><BR/>:P<BR/><BR/>hahaha ok ok, back to the real world. GOOD LUCK TOMORROW!<BR/><BR/>and please do still pray for me. tsk.amyan.ms.https://www.blogger.com/profile/05691757479045755171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3573224.post-79440313155690723962009-03-24T22:13:00.000+08:002009-03-24T22:13:00.000+08:00thank you.I'll hold on to the probability/chance t...thank you.<BR/>I'll hold on to the probability/chance that I might be among the some that isn't the most.Monkey's Bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00700829470005555646noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3573224.post-52651980989959327372009-03-24T18:53:00.000+08:002009-03-24T18:53:00.000+08:00ldr sucks. most of them failed, and failed ugly. =...ldr sucks. most of them failed, and failed ugly. ='(.<BR/><BR/>good luck to you.HFXhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07870553272661743958noreply@blogger.com